Secure Attachment Rewire™
The 5 Key Strategies to Change Your Anxious Attachment in Dating and Relationships
In this course you will go from feeling frustrated and confused to feeling calm, safe, and empowered as you learn how to rewire your brain for secure attachment in dating and relationships
This cutting-edge program is for you if:
You’re frustrated with relationships and you need more. Maybe you attract people who end up being emotionally unavailable or distant. Even though you put a lot of time and effort into your relationships, you still can’t get your needs met, and the energy and time you spend distracts you from the rest of your life.
You’re ready for a deep connection with someone who feels like a best friend but who offers love, romance, and commitment. You’re ready to build a relationship where you feel secure, connected, and enjoy deep long-lasting love.
And you’re ready to build a new relationship with yourself, one where your self love is deep enough that you’re not depending on other people for your validation and self-love.
Whether you’re…
Single
and in a “personal growth” phase where you’ve intuitively realized you want to figure yourself out and deepen your self-love before diving into another relationship. You’re tired of wasting time trying to find a compatible partner, only to end up disappointed or getting your heart broken.
Dating Around
and ready to learn how to spot red flags so you don’t fall for the wrong person.
The people you’re interested in don’t seem to want commitment, or aren’t available for the depth of connection you’re willing to offer. You’re so ready to let go of the frustration that comes from dating someone who takes forever to return a message or phone call.
In a Relationship
and you want tools to help your relationship by changing how you show up. Too often disagreements result in the other person shutting down emotionally or pulling away, and you feeling hurt. You want to be able to feel calmer and more secure in your relationships.
You’re in the right place and I’m going to show you exactly how Secure Attachment Rewire will give you the tools and support on your journey toward secure attachment and happier relationships.
“Kayli helped me “rewire” my emotional responses so that I no longer blindly use maladaptive defense mechanisms and can now be more objective and deliberate in how I respond. This has been extremely helpful, especially with my long term relationships that have not been healthy previously. Kayli also gave me many tools to help maintain my calmness and objectivity in very stressful situations. I feel as though I am now better equipped to handle highly emotionally charged situations with composure.
The biggest improvement is my ability to better co-parent with my ex husband without falling into the old responses of our prior toxic marriage. The benefits of that alone extend far beyond just myself, and I am very grateful for Kayli for helping me and my family.” - E.L.
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What students are saying:
“I feel much more secure in myself and in my relationships… I have more peace and calm, and less stress.” — S.S.
I was taking things personally and had fear of abandonment or rejection when speaking up for my needs. The most important thing I learned was how to soothe and connect with myself. I have greater self-esteem and the ability to speak up for my needs in a non-blaming way. — Anon
“All of the sessions have been extremely helpful. The workbook… The audio sessions…. The course was excellent and well laid-out.” — S.S.
Workshop participants have described this content as
“grounding"
“anchoring"
“validating"
“mind-blowing”
“I have been working towards self-care and changing unhealthy patterns of behavior for almost 20 years, and I feel as if I am making progress faster with Kayli than I ever have before.” — R.H.
“Not only did I get to learn new things about relationships that I didn't understand before, but I was able to experience a deep sense of love and learn how to anchor that into my own body to have whenever I wanted. And BONUS! after the workshop I drove to the corner market to pick up something and was politely complimented and asked out by a gentleman in the store. . . I felt like I must have been all "shiny" after the workshop because I go in there all the time and no one has ever noticed me before. Kayli helped me turned my inner light back on!" - H.S.
“I got so many tools in the class, and learned some new techniques too... I was blown away by the magic you created in the guided meditation.” - B.C.
"Kayli taught me several techniques to quickly calm myself in stressful and highly emotionally charged situations so that I am now able to see these situations more objectively. From that objectivity I can now choose my response to them as an adult rather than reverting back to responses engrained in me as a child because of my childhood traumas. I’ve used other techniques such as meditation or sports as outlets before but those haven’t served me in the moment. Kayli gave me tools that are proactive which have been invaluable and truly changed the way I handle stressors.” - E.L.
I’ve been feeling different, more grounded and solid, and calm, like I can cope with more. I’m not constantly criticizing myself anymore or being so negative.” — A.N.
“Together we worked through an issue from my past that turned out to be holding me back. I was then able to start dating and am now married to a beautiful, incredible woman!” — J.S.
By the end of this program you will have:
Learned all about attachment
Identified your attachment style and learned how it developed and how it has impacted your relationships — and began to focus on key areas to help you to become more secure for relationship happiness
Practiced easy ways to calm down and shift your emotions
Practiced easy ways to quickly calm yourself down and shift into a better emotional state so you can feel calmer and more unflappable when an upsetting situation arises, so that you don’t always have to rely on someone else to make you feel better
Used tools to decrease the feeling of anxiety when someone pulls away
Practiced tools to decrease the feeling of anxiety when someone pulls away, and instead to feel calm and empowered, including subconscious rewiring tools to chip away at that fear of being abandoned that is at the heart of the anxious attachment style
Developed better
boundaries
Developed better self-connection and boundaries through visualization and rewiring tools so that you can maintain your sense of self in relationships and keep true to your priorities of what you desire in partnership
Taken positive steps
toward self-love
Practiced giving yourself the feeling of love that you are wanting from other people so that you can generate the feeling of love for yourself whenever you like, which means being more in control of your moods and experience — and making you more attractive to others!
Practiced re-wiring your brain and attachment system
Practiced rewiring your brain and attachment system through an easy step-by-step process which involves guided meditations, visualizations, and felt-sense awareness
Learned how to interact with different styles
Learned what to do if a partner or friend has a different attachment style for more relationship success and harmony
Learned to spot red flags to save time, money, and heartache
Learned how to spot red flags in a potential partner and use your knowledge of attachment theory in the dating world to save time, money, and heartache
Module 1
Understanding Your Attachment Style, How it Developed, and How It Impacts Your Relationships
Understand your relationships better by diving into attachment styles, learning the different styles and characteristics of each type. You’ll recognize friends, family, and romantic partners here, and you’ll also begin to understand the importance of attachment and why we can have such intense reactions to what other people do and say.
Understand why some people seem to prioritize work or hobbies over relationships (learn what to do about that in Module 7!) And if you’ve ever been labeled “sensitive", "needy, or "clingy” you’ll finally understand why and what to do about it.
Begin the process of shifting your attachment toward secure with visualizations and mini-meditations.
Understanding attachment is the first step toward re-wiring your attachment system and having happier, healthier relationships.
Highlights:
Understand what attachment is and why you might have such intense emotional experiences in relationships
Learn how to identify the 4 attachment styles — and where you fit in
Understand why some people need to talk when they’re upset, whereas others just want to be alone
Deshamifying insecure attachment
Understand how each of the attachment styles developed, and why you have the attachment style you do
Mini meditations and visualizations to wire in secure attachment for relationship happiness
Module 2
Shifting toward Secure Attachment: Learn to Self-Soothe
Learn easy self-soothing techniques so you can get out of a triggered state and feel better quickly without depending on someone else to make you feel okay.
Begin the process of shifting your attachment toward secure with visualizations and full-length guided meditations to help you re-wire for secure attachment at a subconscious level.
Highlights:
Learn easy techniques to calm down quickly that you can use wherever and whenever you want
Learn how to feel okay when someone wants space away from you
Mini meditations and visualizations to wire in secure attachment for relationship happiness
Practice using tools to rewire your brain and attachment system so you can feel more calm and security
Module 3
Shifting toward Secure Attachment: Release the underlying fear of abandonment
Address the underlying fear of rejection and abandonment that is at the heart of the anxious attachment style.
Begin the process of shifting your attachment toward secure with visualizations and full-length guided meditations to help you re-wire for secure attachment at a subconscious level.
Highlights:
Practice feeling okay when someone wants space away from you
Practice using tools to rewire your brain and attachment system so you can feel more calm and self-love
Mini meditations and visualizations to wire in secure attachment for relationship happiness
Practice staying calm while waiting to hear from someone
Strengthen your sense of self love and being loved
Begin to develop powerful internal resources to decrease a fear of abandonment
Module 4
Shifting toward Secure Attachment: Manage Your Boundaries
Practice creating energetic boundaries and getting more in touch with yourself.
Continue the process of shifting your attachment toward secure with visualizations and full-length guided meditations to help you re-wire for secure attachment at a subconscious level.
Highlights:
Develop boundaries to stop feeling like you’re obsessing or “losing yourself” in relationships
Mini meditations and visualizations to wire in secure attachment for relationship happiness
Keep other people’s emotions and energies distinct from your own
Learn some ways to handle your feelings about other people’s boundaries - the ones that create distance in your relationships
Module 5:
Shifting toward Secure Attachment: Learn to Give Yourself Love
Learn how to give yourself love so you’re not relying on acceptance and validation from someone else.
Continue the process of shifting your attachment toward secure with visualizations and full-length guided meditations to help you re-wire for secure attachment at a subconscious level.
Highlights:
Deepen your self-connection and self-love
Learn how to draw on your own experience and imagination to feel love whenever you want
Mini meditations and visualizations to wire in secure attachment for relationship happiness
Module 6:
How Re-Wiring Works
Learn why we use imagination and relaxation for attachment work and practice re-wiring techniques.
Continue the process of shifting your attachment toward secure with visualizations and full-length guided meditations to help you re-wire for secure attachment at a subconscious level.
Highlights:
Learn and practice re-wiring tools for common attachment-related pitfalls in relationships
Mini meditations and visualizations to wire in secure attachment at a subconscious level
Module 7
Dating and Relationships
Discover strategies to guide you in dating and relationships — whether you’re already partnered or preparing for your next relationship.
If you’re in a relationship:
Learn strategies that support your own attachment system and that of a partner.
If you’re dating:
Become familiar with red flags so that you can meet people who are compatible and have a high chance of being good relational partners.
Highlights:
Learn “best practices” for a secure-functioning relationship
Find out what to do or say based on the other person’s attachment style
Learn how to navigate relationships with people who prioritize work and hobbies over spending time with you
Save time, money, and heartache in dating by learning how to apply attachment theory to the dating world
Become familiar with red flags so that you find a compatible partner for a long-lasting and satisfying relationship
When you enroll now, you’ll get
Secure Attachment Rewire™
(A $300 value)
7 transformative modules showing you everything you need to rewire your anxious attachment style for a secure, fulfilling, long-lasting relationship
6 easy techniques you can use to calm yourself down quickly
2 ways of developing clear boundaries for yourself for less relationship overwhelm and more peace and security
5 exercises to help you cultivate more self-love
Mini meditations and visualizations sprinkled throughout the course to help you wire in secure attachment
3 full-length guided meditations to help rewire your attachment system at a subconscious level so you can feel more calm, secure, and loved. These meditations use the latest attachment and neuroscience research to help you keep your sense of self in a relationship, have healthy boundaries, stay calm while waiting to hear from someone, reduce separation anxiety, focus on the positive, and feel good in your body! The meditations included are Relaxation, Self-Connection, and Boundaries for Anxious Attachment, Release Fear of Abandonment, and Release the Past.
When you make a one-time payment, you will also receive these bonuses to help you on your journey toward secure attachment and relationship happiness
Bonus #1
Accepting and Healing Your Attachment History
A guided meditation with visualization to help you accept your past relationship history and do some healing on a subconscious level.
Bonus #2
Accessing the Body’s Emotional Wisdom
One exercise helps you tap into your body’s emotional wisdom, and gets you out of your head. This is useful whether you’re in the middle of a conflict or whether you just want to amp up the good feelings in your body to feel even better.
The second exercise is a technique that helps you shift your emotions quickly — for example, in the middle of a heated argument — so you can get past the trigger and onto resolving the conflict
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Secure Attachment Rewire™ helps you go from feeling frustrated and confused to feeling calm, safe, and empowered as you learn how to rewire your brain for secure attachment in dating and relationships.
If you don’t feel totally confident that you can use these tools to understand your relationships better and feel calmer and more secure, simply reach out, show that you’ve put in the work, and I’ll refund your investment.
Enroll in Secure Attachment Rewire™
Today
Choose between
A one-time payment of $197
Buy now + Get an Extra Bonus
2 monthly payments of $105
Buy now + Pay Monthly
Frequently Asked Questions
+ I’ve been feeling insecure in relationships for so long. Are you sure these techniques will change anything for me?
These techniques are based in neuroscience and attachment research and while I cannot guarantee that you will make the change you want, I have seen many people do it, myself included.
+ When I join Secure Attachment Rewire™, will I get immediate access to all the course material?
Once payment is processed, you will receive an email with access information.
+ Will Kayli be available to answer questions if I get stuck or need help?
You may reach out from inside the course through email and I will be happy to answer questions.
+ Can I do the modules at a slower pace?
Yes, you will have access to the course for a year from your purchase date, and the course contains downloadable components as well.
+ When does the program start? Can I begin whenever I want?
The course is open for enrollment right now. You will receive access via email after you sign up.
+ I have disorganized/fearful attachment. Will this course still be helpful for me?
If you lean toward anxious attachment style as well, then yes.
Still thinking about it?
I suggest you do Secure Attachment Rewire™ if you are motivated by any of the following:
You really want to be in a relationship where your partner shows up fully and completely, loves you for who you are, and wants to spend time with you.
You can always make more money, but time is precious. According to chaplains, when people look back at their lives, they don’t regret the things they did so much as the things they didn’t, and one of the top regrets is around relationships — people wish that they had kept deeper and more meaningful relationships.
Too often the cycle of attachment disruption flows between generations. Putting an end to this trauma cycle releases future generations for more happiness and well-being, physically and mentally.
You want to experience more control over your happiness and well-being.
I personally cannot wait to guide you throughout the course…
Creating an amazing relationship has literally transformed my life.
I’ve experienced first hand what it feels like to go from feeling frustrated that I’m not getting the time and connection I want to being at the center of my partner’s world (and vice versa). This partnership would not have happened without learning the tools to shift my own attachment system.
More than anything else, I want to share that with you today.
If you’re single, dating, or in a relationship, it is an act of self love and care to to take a risk-free plunge to find out what attachment rewiring can change for you.
Imagine how your life would be different if you felt calm, safe, and empowered around your relationships, capable of getting your needs met, relaxed about the natural ebbs and flows in connection.
I look forward to meeting you personally inside Secure Attachment Rewire™.
Love,
Kayli Larkin
Enroll in Secure Attachment Rewire™
Today
Choose between
A one-time payment of $197
Buy now + Get an Extra Bonus
2 monthly payments of $105
Buy now + Pay Monthly