Attachment Patterns
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The Secure Relationship Bundle
Ready to break free from anxious patterns and feel confident in love?
This bundle combines two transformative courses to help you rewire attachment patterns, set boundaries with ease, and create secure, lasting connections.
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A misattunement is when you and your partner aren’t quite in sync emotionally. Maybe you open up, and their response feels off or dismissive. It’s uncomfortable, but these moments happen in every relationship and can be repaired with care and communication.
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Setting boundaries doesn’t have to be hard.This guide offers practical, compassionate steps to help you communicate your needs and feel empowered.
You are lovable.
Imagine feeling love, security, and deep connection in relationships.
What if relationships could be easier and more fulfilling?
Love can feel complex, and we weren’t always shown how to navigate relationships. Wouldn’t it be helpful if there were a model to help you navigate the complexities of love? To help you feel safe, secure, and loved?
It turns out there is.
Hi, I’m Kayli.
If you’re tired of insecure attachment style keeping you at arms length from the relationship you desire…
And you’re ready for a relationship with deep connection, passionate love, and blissful security…
I’ve been helping people since 2017 to let go of the pain of the past and transform unhealthy relational patterns.
This is how I built my own secure partnership, and I would be honored to help you build a relationship that is not a source of stress, but comfort and inspiration.
Our relational patterns can keep us stuck — stuck in patterns like navigating push-pull dynamics in relationships, or dating people who are emotionally unavailable or who smother us. When we’re stuck in these patterns, they can seem confusing and never-ending. But you can learn to change the fundamental ways you relate to people, and draw in the love you’ve always wanted.
Change your attachment style, change your relationships
These patterns are set very early in life, but neuroscience has taught us that it is possible to change our ways of thinking, feeling, behaving, and relating in some phenomenal ways. And we now know that learning about attachment style can help you level up your relationships. But that’s not all. By using our understanding of how the brain works we can create change through subconscious rewiring, somatic attachment re-patterning, and guided visualization. That means, even if someone didn’t have the perfect childhood, they can still become more secure and have a fulfilling, secure, and long-lasting relationship!
“Kayli was recommended by a friend because of how well she gets to the bottom of emotional responses and helps
heal the underlying trauma that trigger those responses.” — E.L.
Curious about working together?
You can schedule a consult for a one-on-one session or take a course.
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Relax & Rewire Meditations
Guided meditations to relax mind and body while you rewire for better relationships. Choose from audios for better boundaries, keeping your sense of self in relationship, or deepening your self-love.
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Work With Kayli
One-on-one sessions that blend somatic attachment re-patterning, visualization, subconscious rewiring, Havening®, and more.
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Take a Course
Learn how to rewire your attachment system for more love & security — self-paced courses are available, or you can combine with one-on-one sessions.
Client & Student Feedback
"Kayli taught me several techniques to quickly calm myself in stressful and highly emotionally charged situations… I can now choose my response to them as an adult rather than reverting back to responses engrained in me because of my childhood traumas." — E.L.
"I’ve been feeling different, more grounded and solid, and calm, like I can cope with more. I’m not constantly criticizing myself anymore or being so negative… I feel more free and I have more self love.” — A.N.
"I have found her to be particularly gifted with attachment trauma. With her wise and gentle guidance I have deepened into relationship with myself and begun to heal longstanding wounds." — A.T.
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